DO YOU FEEL THE PRESSURE TO BE PERFECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA?

Looking FABULOUS are everything in these days. Many people believe you can be happy and success – even at least in social media- if you look fabulous. So people are concerned with proving that they are looking good all the time and having fun in special places eating expensive dinner.

The flawless night out pictures are more important that the actual night itself. 

If a girl posts a picture wearing a new party dress she’ve got, it’s more likely for a new Facebook profile photo than an actually party.

Not to mention, going out without uploading a new Snapchat story or Instagram picture is inconceivable.

Half the people in there will likely be on their phones if you walk on the street, or to be honest everywhere. If they’re not taking selfies, they’re possibly on Tinder where happily meeting strangers through the Internet while the real people around themselves don’t even get eye contact. Because all that swiping right or left is heavily decided based on their appearance, you also cannot choose any picture on my profile. Even if it will take hours and hours to choose and photoshop it, you need to pick good one because that is the only way I can appeal how active you are, how sociable you are, how pretty you are, and give the reason why other guy need to swipe right and should start conversation with you.  Oh, we really should give a prize for someone who invent filter first!

Not only just Tinder, Instagram, Facebook as well. You have way way more people on social media than real life. They see the picture you upload and judge you – maybe someone will envy you. So what is more important? Giving a good impression to 10 real life friends or uploading good picture for hundreds of your social-media friends? answer is simple. You know every people only post their best moments and best looking one and choose to keep their everydayness or worst ones privates, even you know that, but you don’t want to admit you want attention and want to look nice and better than someone who might see your picture in their ‘not so good day’ and envy you like you do when you check Kardashian’s family on social media.

Sometimes I wonder if people arrange to meet up with their friends because they miss them or because they haven’t updated their Snapchat stories for a while and need some new material to prove to the world they’re having a good time. The fact of the matter is, brag culture has resulted in us being too busy narrating our lives online that we’re forgetting to live them. Trust me, no great story ever started with “Hey, remember that time we took 37 photos in your car…?” Life is now a popularity contest, and it seems that the popularity is less dependent on how many friends you have and is more a reflection of how many Twitter followers you possess. Girls upload Instagram pictures and then delete them the next day if they did not receive a sufficient number of “likes” because that alone is considered a reflection of how many people like them in real life.

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Don’t let social media fool you. People who press like every picture you posted may not be the one who run straight to you when something happens to you and you need someone’s shoulder to cry. People who posts hundreds of couple picture from their holiday on Facebook maybe fight more often that the couple seldom post picture of themselves. You know Seeing isn’t everything, YOU KNOW.

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