{"id":121,"date":"2017-01-22T20:27:06","date_gmt":"2017-01-22T20:27:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/?p=121"},"modified":"2017-01-23T11:57:11","modified_gmt":"2017-01-23T11:57:11","slug":"pretending-youre-happy-memes-necessary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/pretending-youre-happy-memes-necessary\/","title":{"rendered":"Pretending You&#8217;re Happy by All Memes Necessary?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/rain-depressed-joey-E2d2tsgz7iHo4\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft \" src=\"http:\/\/i.giphy.com\/E2d2tsgz7iHo4.gif\" width=\"365\" height=\"274\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Memes: Do they make us happy or sad?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Memes are confusing little things that send mixed messages to different people. Acting as a double edged sword, on one hand they constantly joke about depression and isolation, allowing\u00a0many people to use them as a facade to mask their own sadness. And on the other they make us feel elated, giving us small bursts of laughter throughout the day, along with making us feel relatable and less alone.<\/p>\n<p>Depression is a serious mental illness that is escalating at a rapid pace.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/jonathan-rottenberg\/depression-stigma_b_5108140.html\" target=\"_blank\">The World Health Organization<\/a>\u00a0estimates\u00a0that by 2030, &#8216;the amount life lost due to depression will be greater than that of any other condition, including accidents, war, suicide, cancer, and stroke. This is one of the most pressing social problems facing the world, and yet our social dialogue about depression remains profoundly anaemic&#8217;. This fast rise of depression in our modern online culture\u00a0is catalysed\u00a0by the memes.<\/p>\n<p>In a desperate attempt to make viral memes, photo shoppers rely on relatable content, particularly sad, depressive, seemingly over the top scenarios. Yes, I am guilty of finding these very amusing as I see the memes\u00a0as dramatic, sarcastic characters &#8211; however for those who suffer with depression, these are received in an entirely different way, it resonates much deeper. From personal experience, once\u00a0I had an entirely different\u00a0reaction to the\u00a0meme of the &#8216;forever alone&#8217; guy, usually finding him hilarious, once it had actually brought me to tears after a break up when I could relate to the problem that the meme was joking about. Speaking to my friends about this, many of them shared similar experiences.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-122 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/0b8.jpg\" width=\"647\" height=\"481\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/0b8.jpg 647w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/0b8-300x223.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 647px) 100vw, 647px\" \/> \u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-125 \" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/Forever_Alone.png\" width=\"366\" height=\"340\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Other viral\u00a0memes prey on narcissistic qualities such as body image and beauty. This can promote depression through comparing oneself to another, creating a sense of competition and the\u00a0feelings that\u00a0you may\u00a0not good enough or less than someone else.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-124 \" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/e9ee5776d5c5ebf8f8826697aa34ed51.jpg\" width=\"488\" height=\"488\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/e9ee5776d5c5ebf8f8826697aa34ed51.jpg 550w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/e9ee5776d5c5ebf8f8826697aa34ed51-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/e9ee5776d5c5ebf8f8826697aa34ed51-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/e9ee5776d5c5ebf8f8826697aa34ed51-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/e9ee5776d5c5ebf8f8826697aa34ed51-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 488px) 100vw, 488px\" \/><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-126 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/sad-frog-meme-abs.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"422\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/sad-frog-meme-abs.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/sad-frog-meme-abs-300x253.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/>Chicago University have launched a new study looking into the link between ironic<a href=\"http:\/\/unleashedreality.com\/ironic-memes-and-depression\/\" target=\"_blank\"> memes and depression<\/a>. The University contacted roughly 500 meme pages asking them several questions about this link. A researcher commented on the results, &#8216;All along, we thought it was just a part of ironic meme culture, that they were just pretending to be depressed and exaggerating their sadness&#8217;. Although he actually discovered that, &#8216;It\u2019s not an act. It\u2019s all real. These people are really, truly, clinically depressed. I\u2019m honestly surprised that there haven\u2019t been more ironic suicides.&#8217;<br \/>\nOn the brighter side: memes do make us happy! They provide us with an endless stream of\u00a0entertainment and keep us up to date pop culture. Memes make us feel as though we are part of a larger group and not on our own.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/i.giphy.com\/12SXVd8bmXdSg0.gif\" width=\"397\" height=\"325\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you see someone laughing at their phone its most likely a hilarious meme that has them in stitches. With memes saturating most\u00a0social media sites, if you were to browse any of your timelines, they would predominantly consist\u00a0of memes. According to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.memecenter.com\/search\/happy\" target=\"_blank\">Meme Centre<\/a>, cute animal memes make us laugh the most. See for yourself:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-133 \" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/22012f889865e715be0b4255da02e329.jpg\" width=\"391\" height=\"388\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/22012f889865e715be0b4255da02e329.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/22012f889865e715be0b4255da02e329-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/22012f889865e715be0b4255da02e329-300x297.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/22012f889865e715be0b4255da02e329-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 391px) 100vw, 391px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-134 \" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/Silly-Animal-Memes.jpg\" width=\"378\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/Silly-Animal-Memes.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/oliviaveale\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/121\/2017\/01\/Silly-Animal-Memes-211x300.jpg 211w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 378px) 100vw, 378px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Overall memes have had a definite impact on certain societal issues such as depression and anxiety, clearly when memes are too relatable or\u00a0resonate too deeply they are very upsetting. People hide their depression behind ironic memes, dismissing their dark feelings as comedy &#8211; this then furthers their sadness as the\u00a0attempt in suppressing their emotions only emphasises them more. However, memes can also promote happiness, making people physically laugh much more often\u00a0due to the high\u00a0exposure of\u00a0comedy and happiness from almost every social media site on a daily basis &#8211; it has almost created a sort of routine, wake up, look through news feed and laugh and hilarious memes.<\/p>\n<p>More Information:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/miseryslife.tumblr.com\" target=\"_blank\">Misery embodied in memes<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Memes: Do they make us happy or sad? Memes are confusing little things that send mixed messages to different people. 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