{"id":188,"date":"2017-01-17T12:36:28","date_gmt":"2017-01-17T12:36:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/?p=188"},"modified":"2017-01-23T10:36:10","modified_gmt":"2017-01-23T10:36:10","slug":"digital-perfection-obsession-post-perfect-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/2017\/01\/17\/digital-perfection-obsession-post-perfect-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Digital Perfection : Obsession With Posting the Perfect Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Social media gives us the ability to choose what we share on\u00a0our online profiles, and therefore manipulate the content to show the &#8216;best&#8217; image of ourselves. I might occasionally post a selfie on Instagram which would appear to be a quick and easy action, just take one photo and press upload right? Wrong. But what you don&#8217;t see is the collection of photos that have accumulated on my camera roll after taking several attempts to capture the perfect angle.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-200 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2017\/01\/blog-post-3-3--300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"365\" height=\"243\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2017\/01\/blog-post-3-3--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2017\/01\/blog-post-3-3-.jpg 524w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 365px) 100vw, 365px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So this got me thinking&#8230; Why do I feel the need to post selfies? What am I trying to prove and who am I trying to prove it to? Questions that I am yet to find the answer to.<\/p>\n<p>Many social media users seek fulfilment from receiving likes and positive comments on the posts that they upload. Of course this is understandable, who isn&#8217;t going to feel good after receiving 50+ likes on a photo? But this obsession with posting the perfect life is beginning to take over peoples ability to actually live their lives and appreciate the experiences that are put before them.<\/p>\n<p>I often find myself out for dinner with friends\/family and instantly reaching for my phone to take a photo of the food in-front of me, sometimes taking several minutes to find the best angle and posting it to my Snapchat story. It is easy to become trapped in a self-absorbed bubble, and constantly snap away at every moment in life &#8211; because if you didn&#8217;t take a photo of it, did it even happen?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-214 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2017\/01\/blog-post-3--300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"327\" height=\"218\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2017\/01\/blog-post-3--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2017\/01\/blog-post-3-.jpg 525w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 327px) 100vw, 327px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Writing this blog post has made me reflect on what content I post on my social media sites. \u00a0As cheesy as it may sound, it has prompted me to start <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">&#8216;living for the moment&#8217;<\/span>. I have countless videos saved to my camera roll from various music festivals \u00a0that I have attended over the past few years (with some being uploaded to my Instagram\/Facebook), but I can&#8217;t honestly say that I have ever watched them back. Although understandably we like to take photos\/videos as a means of holding on to a visual reminder of certain events, sometimes it will mean more to put our phones in our pockets for a few minutes and witness it through our own eyes at that very moment in time.<\/p>\n<p>Writing this blog post has made me reflect on how I utilise social media, and how much time I dedicate to it each day, therefore the next post will be a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blog.buprojects.uk\/2016-2017\/loiswatkins\/2017\/01\/22\/12-hour-social-media-ban\/\">video<\/a>, which will take into consideration all of the content from previous posts. I hope you&#8217;re looking forward to it as much as I am!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Social media gives us the ability to choose what we share on\u00a0our online profiles, and therefore manipulate the content to show the &#8216;best&#8217; image of ourselves. I might occasionally post a selfie on Instagram which would appear to be a quick and easy action, just take one photo and press upload right? Wrong. 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